Field of Schemes…

Daily writing prompt
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

Promises Promises

Have I got a deal for you

It’s a guarantee

I’m doing this for you

I swear it

You deserve it

All I need from you is

If you do this, then I’ll

It’ll be just between us

Anytime there is an overly happy, too good to be true sort of person, acquaintance, sales person or what not… the hairs on the back of my neck stand on end!

I’ll tell you why…

Because, promises are not always promises, not all deals are all that good, there are no guarantees, most people who tell you it’s for your good are about to hurt your feelings, anyone can swear nowadays, no one truly knows who deserves what, there is always a catch or something in it for the one offering… and, it is never, ever, ever just between you and them!

I know, I know… pretty brutal and straight up, right?!

I’m pretty sure everyone has met at least one person like this in their lifetime. Maybe not all of the above in just one person, but it is a self-centered personality trait that I find rather irritating, destructive, and dangerous… I avoid this personality like the plague!

I’ll make it clear here that I’ve no specific person to point fingers at, since the trait can be found in any sort of type… if they let it!

Here, have a cookie…

Such Big Words They Use…

The better to misuse us with…

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Daily writing prompt
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

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Big Talkers… Smooth Talkers… think of it as a wolf in Used Car Salesman clothing.

At one time or another, we have all spent time buying a car… time we will never get back. Sitting for hours in an office with lousy coffee, and a bowl of stale candy on a side table. Schmoozing, promising… talking us into compromising our better judgement, in order to get an affordable price on a vehicle they swear is Steal of a Deal!

Now that you have a mental image of a personality trait no one enjoys dealing with, I wish to relate this to a personality trait that sends red flags up for me, brighter than Red Riding Hoods Cape! I know that I used an example about a car dealer, but we all have met folks that act and talk like Grannie but are really not an old woman at all.

Beware of wolves in sheep’s clothing, as they say!

I looked on Google for accurate descriptions of Personality Traits, and there is a really interesting one called yourdictionary.com . A wise thing I noted while reading, is the fact that the question we are answering should pertain to someone we know. A trait is an overall thing, a persons natural go to… not an off the cuff reaction or behavior, so car dealerships across America can breath a sigh of relief. You are not all bad… just some.

Quite frankly, we should choose our friends wisely! I come from an old school train of thought… If you are going to talk the talk, then you better be able to walk the walk… A man is as good as his word… do unto others as you would have them do unto you… etc!

As in the wise words of Forest Gump, “That’s all I got to say about that”…

Enjoy brekkers…

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